I have a dilemna. my grandsons birthday is scheduled for the same day as one of my sons baseball games. My grandson will be 3, my son is 10. the game starts an hr before the party. I left it up to my son, I said he could either skip the game,or go to the game with my bf and come to the party aboout an hr late, but I am going to the party. I go to all my sons games and practices, this would be the only one I miss. Now my sil, thinks Im wrong to let him choose and he should be made to go to the party(he is leanig towards playing baseball).I say its up to him, and really most of the other kids at the party and most of the activities are aimed for kids 4 and under. He will be there for cake and presents though,plus baseball is a team sport. now Im second guessing my decision, oh and my daughter doenst care one way or another, she have 18 kids coming.