My 24 year old Son frequently accuses me of NOT listening to him.I'm afraid he is right. I try he is always putting others down. I cannot listen to MY son when he does.on top of that I feel totally intimidated by him.I feel stupid he uses words that I do not understand.He is always looking up the meaning of words he hears. I have WAY TOO much on my mind. I have been under SO much stress for one person. I have been unemployed for over a year with NO unemployment benefits, I am divorced and My only source of income right now is my alimony payments I get when my Ex decides to pay it.I'm always chasing after it. My younger Sister passed away not too long ago she removed herself from the family, me, my older Sister, Aunts, Uncles,Cousins. And left the house our parents left her because she never Married nor held a job to this so called priest who parented her many years ago to disown her family. He told me personally she cooks and cleans for me NOT your mother.She treated our sick mother cruelly you cannot imagibe what she had done.currently my LandLord wants me evicted why? I dont know why. My Sons Girlfriend came to visit occasionally and stood the weekend. The girl lives in PA My landlord insists she lives here.
On top of that My older Sister owes me Money and refuses to pay it back. she works I do not. I also suffer from Fibromyalgia so I'm in constant pain.Now My Son is telling me my Daughter is on cocaine why? because one time she spoke to him and she stumbled her words. My daughter lives in GA going to college taking Psychology.And lives with her fiance.I have not seen her in 2 years she doesn't have the money to fly here and vise verse.My daughter does not or ever got along with her Father for very good reason.She has no interest in speaking to him.He has not made a single effort since we got divorced 7 yrs ago..No birthday calls from him to her. No calls for ANY HOLIDAY and no gifts.How can I listen to my son making these accusations about his sister? He never went to college and I pay his Car insurance plus cell phone. In the past he took my computer opened the lid and whacked it over his knee It cost me 800 to repair it. He did give me 400 but has never paid the rest saying I didn't write a letter to him about paying it back to me. I make him dinner and lunch to take to work. he has called me in the past everything from me being fat, stupid and tells me I'm not looking for a job. calls me the C word.I don't like how he treats his GF he NEVER laid a hand on her but he speaks to her in a degrading manner I think and tell him so AND have told her so too.He tells me "I'm your Son you should stick up for me or shut your mouth about relationships YOUR DIVORVED.I might add His Father still 7 years later speaks badly of me. He Cheated on me and He filed divorced siting EXTREME cruelty. I feel like I'm losing my mind. Just because my Daughter isnt here does not mean she is on Cocaine. She never did drugs, My Son has.Do I ask her straight up? If I were her I would find that offensive.I suck at life I cannot seem to make anyone happy.