when you visit your adult child, is this normal?
Everytime I come to visit my 21 yr old I bring my 19 yr old and 8 yr old. The 8 yr old stays on the computer while the other 2 stay in my daughters room with the door closed. Then there are times I come without the 19 yr old sister and the boyfriend comes over and they lay in my 21 yr olds bed all day. This really makes me feel I am wasting the time and effort it takes to drive 4 hours to visit. W
When she comes home she sits in the recliner and watches tv and does not hang out in her bedroom at home. Yes my kids still have bedrooms at home even if they don't live at home.
I'm don't know if I should pull out of my irritated bad mood and just put on a fake smile and take them out to lunch or something. But all they would do is talk to eachother and I'd be the ghost I am right now.