All I wanted this weekend was some peace and quiet to enable me to get what I needed to do done. So today I have had my son and his girlfriend here all day fighting, complete with the slamming of doors, texting, phone calls (including one from her asking me to get involved), and all the drama you can imagine. Now my son lives at home and I understand that fighting is part of every relationship but why oh why do they have to fight here? I have enough that I'm stressing about without adding their issues. Right now they are sitting in her car in our driveway talking and I can only hope they either settle whatever the hell is the problem or if they must continue to fight, that they do so in her car!
Well it would seem they are done fighting although I'm not sure they've settled everything, I haven't had a chance to talk to my son. He seemed rather cranky when he came in and went to bed since he starts his shift early in the morning.
Final thoughts - Thank you all for reading my post and for taking the time to reply, I really do appreciate it. I do want to say that while I didn't particularly want to have to deal with their fighting and the drama, I think that it is important sometimes for people to deal with the negative feelings in a relationship, whether romantic or any other kind. They have been dating now for awhile, not quite a year, and so I feel as though this is basically healthy if they are to continue to date. It just wasn't very, well let's say convenient, from my prospective. My son and I talked and he told me that they are still working on the issue, whatever it is, so I think that part is good.