Venting!! Warning maybe long with language...
What a way to start the new year! Earlier in the day when my husband went by to pick Kali up from my daughters her SO came out to talk to Larry. Larry said he reeked of booze and was so drunk he could hardly stand up and was slurringhis words. So that put me on notice right there it wasn't going to be a good day. Kecia walked down for awhile and she said he had drank to much and was being a ass hole so she left for awhile. I told her to bring TJ down here so he didn't have to be around Aaron beinglike that. She said everything was fine. Well,I should of went with my gut feeling and went and got TJ anyway,but I didn't.
Well about five this evening I get a call from Kecia crying hysterically and wanting me to come get TJ. Aaron had hit her and broke her glasses and he's throwing shit around the house and knocking wholes in the bedroom door!! So I tell her for her and TJ to get the hell out of there and call the cops. She won't leave! I call LArry becuse hes at work and I have no car to go get TJ,he gets permission to come home for awhile after explaining to his boss whats going on. Luckily he only work about 1/4 mile form home. And he has to drive buy Kecias house on the way home..so tell him to pick TJ up on his way home. But KEcias friend who has been staying there is already walking TJ over here. BEcause Aaron has went totally nuts and is throw shit out the door into the front yard,telling Kecia to get he hell out.
So anyway Larry sees them and picks them up and brings them here. I jump in the car to go there and try to get Kecia thehell away from there. Her friend goes with me,we get there and theres two police cars setting in the yard and driveway! Because we find out after talking to the landlord(who lives next door to KEcia)he called the cops because he was afraid of TJ or Kecia getting hurt. And he also let me know that Aaron had been up at the neighborhood bar alst night drinking. And he had also been seen behind the bar doing drugs(inhalants)whatever they're doing when they have the dust mask over their face? And he was told to leave or the cops were being called on him and whoever he was with. I bought this up with Kecia later when she was at my house and she tried to lie for him! I told her he had been seen by their landlord! She was suprised to hear that.
So a female officer has Kecia outside calming her down and talking to her and asking her where the child is? And two male officers are in with Aaron trying to talk to him. I tell the female officer that TJ is safe and at my house and who I am. She asks me about Kecia and Aarons relationship and I told her thathe has hit her and tried to strangle her before when he has been drunk or high on drugs. Kecia tries to make excuses for him but it didn't go to far. But anyway because she wouldn't file charges against his sorry ass and they were both fighting and he was drunk they didn't arrest him or her! They put it downas a domestic dispute! I even let the cops know he had a warrant out on his ass but it was from Oregon and they said they would check his priors but still didn't arrest him.
I come on home so LArry can get back to work and make sure TJ is okay and settled in. He(TJ) tells me,"GRandma,Daddy was just acting stupid." "Right?" I just hate that he has to see his parents being such ass holes. I told Larry that TJ would be staying with us for quite awhile. Because if I can prevent it,he won't be going back into that house until his sperm donor decides to get professional help. Or just gets put back in jail.
Told Kecia the samething when she came up here a little while ago trying to make excuses for him and his drunkeness and hitting her and tearing up the house. I told her shes a grown woman and I can't stop her from living with the bastard,but I will do everything in my power to protect my grandson! And if she dosen't care enough about herself and the baby she carrying to get away from him,then theres no more for me to say to her. Because shes not going to listen anyway.
Ohhh,they've talked and both of them are going to go to counseling ect. ect. ect. I've heard it all before and it never gets done! I'm so F'ing tired of it all!
Untill they show me proof they're getting help, and its doing some good. TJ is staying right here. Where I know he's safe from all that craziness.
And on top of all that, the police hotlined her to family services because of Aaron being a sex offender,even though TJ is his son. And because of them fighting and all the crap Aaron busted up and hitting Kecia.So they'll probablly contact me sometime tomorrow. I let Kecia know I wasn't going to lie to them to protect his ass or hers! And if I have to I will go file for custody to get TJ permanently.
I just wish they had arrested his ass.
OK,I think I'm done. GRRRRRRRR!!!!!!