Have a 23 yr old son,18 yr old son a 16 yr old d,2 ss 14@18..My oldest s has lived 3 hrs away since he graduated in 07. He visits every few mths and i go see him as well. My problem is he borrowed some money awhile back cause he had got into some trouble $600.00 to be exact. s has made several promises to pay this back but never done so. At x-mas it really hurt my feelings that he didnt make any attempt to buy me or his siblings a gift or nothing for my b-day the day after x-mas. He sure went out and partyed every night with his friends,before x-mas has emailed me saying guess what i got mom,said hope million dollars so i can have some says no he went out got an I pad this hurt my feelings as well. I have told him on several diffrent occasions that i need him to pay me back something he says ok i will..Has no kids works 2 jobs and 3 roomates splits bills with has gone on 2 trips since borrowing this money and planning another. Just dont get why he knows im broke.