Our son has dropped out of college. It's kind of heartbreaking because we know life is going to be harder for him now but I'm not mad at him. He was miserable and academics is just not his thing.
Here is what I wanted to talk about, my BIL says that we should not take him on trips and he should pay rent and so on.
Well we always told the kids they'd have to get a job and pay rent. We've already told him how much rent he will have to pay and when he will start.
We enjoy our son. We want him to go on trips with us generally unless they are romantic ones for two.
We do not have a hate on over his "throwing away his future" and I just can't understand how or why parents think this way.
Anyway, what would you do if your kids moved back home? What rules would you have?