My son's girlfriend is tearing my family apart
My oldest son has been with his girlfriend for 3 1/2 years. In that time she has cheated on him, threatened to distroy his career as well has his brothers, and been extremely disrespectful to me on many occasions.
My son has the family cell plan in his name, I wanted him to build credit when he turned 18. It worked and has not been a problem til SHE stuck her nose into the situation. He pays the bill for my youngest son and me and I pay his car insurance. The cell bill he pays is 90 dollars, the insurance I pay is 110. Last fall there was a billing mistake that added 80 dollars to the bill. She called the company and caused problems by being a bitch, I fixed the billing error and told my son I would not deal with her on similar issues again, I told him it was not good for my relationship with her.
She started again last weekend. I texted my son I did not want to deal with her on finincail issues. By that afternoon I was subjected to texts and phone calls demanding I put all the lines but his in my name. Triggered by another billing error on my youngest son's line of $1.99. The rest of us want to change plans but need a bit of time to find the right one. REQUEST denied. She threatened to turn the lines off and did remove texting and data from mine.
It has come to the point where I am so broken hearted I have no idea what to do. My son's latest text said he wanted to have a relationship with me but there had to be boundaries, I tried to set a boundary she would not honor it. I have bent over backwards to make things easier for her all she does is make my life hell. I love my son but have no idea how to get past the hurt this girl has caused him, my other sons and me.
Sorry this was so long, I didn't even scratch the surface.