She's going even if he isn't... update... in blue
My dd. She's going to the court proceedings for the unpaid child support tomorrow. he's more than $20,000 in the hole, and while I understand that this is probably not top on the authorities list of priorities... if they were able to find him just recently, what has been going on for the last 3 1/2 years? Anyway, After alot of thought, my dd decided that it may just be worth it for her to go even though they don't Need her there, they did say that it would be in her best interest to be there in case what he presents is different then what is in the records as of now... (which is not cs paid for 3-1/2 years.) One day he says he's not going, which will result in a warrant, the next day he says he going... So she decided that either way she's going to go... Course she has to take a personal day from work, and miss a day on her extern, but she feels it's important. (Court is in the county that he lives in which is 4 hours away)..
My feeling is that if he does show, he'll either be going to jail in that county, or they will be transporting his ass down here... He has warrants in both counties on other charges, but they are all over 2 years old... I don't think he will show. It will be interesting....
have any of you or your children gone through the whole court process for unpaid child support? what was the outcome?
She went... and surprisingly he actually did too. (I think his friends mom had ALOT to do with him being there).. he has to pay almost $700.00 buy the 22nd of Feb, then goes back to court in March, has to actively search for work (he has to prove that he is looking) if he doesn't do both of these things, they are going to put him in jail. I'm really glad she went.. He was pissed that she was there. I think he wanted to say some things to the court that he knows weren't true. My dd asked him afterwards when he wanted to see his kids... his repsonse..... i don't know when i'll have time, i have to get a job. ...... lol... that's his mentality. my dd takes care of all 3 kids, works full time AND is doing her extern at night.
I just hope that he will finally grow up..I know I'm hoping for alot here lol but please.