Do you pay for your grown kids to visit you, or how about family vacations?
My kids, who are grown and on their own, are not in careers that pay well. Which is fine, they are both happy, and do great work. But I still love to do family vacations every year or so, so I pay for them. Otherwise they couldn't afford them.
I also will help pay for my son to come back for a visit. He just couldn't afford it with not only the time off from work, but the air fare. I'm happy to do it because I love to see my kids.
Otherwise they are financially responsible, don't live beyond their means, quite frugal.
Are there other moms who find themselves in the same position?