to Montreal, Canda for a weekend in April with his friends. He's 19 and in college. He's a good kid and so are his friends but I'm a little hestitant about him going because this is his first trip outside of the U.S. He has gone away with his friends last year for a weekend but that was in the next state over from us. My main problem isn't about my son going with his friends. I pretty sure he could take care of himself. He's pretty responsible. But my husband wants to go with them. He says, he wants to go and keep an eye out for them.It would make me feel less anxious about them being there alone. My sons all for it, he wants my husband to go. But my son doesn't want me to go with my husband. And my husband doesn't want me to go either. It might seem a little selfish that I want to go too because they want a boys weekend. But I can't help from feeling hurt that they don't want me there. It's me and my husband's 20th Anniversary next month and I would like to celebrate it by going away some where too. Should I just let them go and stay home by myself or should I try to convinve them that I'd like to get away too and promise not to get in the way of my son and his friends so they can have a good time.