Please advice, I am hurting.
Our single Forty + year daughter last spoke to us a year back this day. She sent us a letter saying she is tired of parenting us since she was born. Yes, since she was born. We don't need her financial support or shelter She has a good job and lots of face book friends. She gets stressed over Thanksgiving, Christmas and leaves the country. Valentine day and other holidays is very stressful for her. She wants to be a single mom and blames us for not helping her. At first she felt she should find Mr right but this is not to be she said. She is very independent and very bipolar. Her Facebook friends encouraged her to have a baby. Will they be there for her and her child? She won't talk to us or her siblings until she has a baby. She has been trying IVF since two year. She won't answer my calls, letters or emails. Her sibling and she don't say in touch. The only one who cares for her is us. The other side of her is sweet and loving but she won't talk to us. Her uncle and Aunty's are of no help. No one wants to tell her any thing but rather walk on egg shells around her. We are not in the best of health and feels very helpless. I have seen a therapist learning to cope. Loving is unconditual and we love our daughter. It hurts.