As the grooms family, what do you feel is your responsibilities?
In years gone by, there was the "traditional wedding" and the etiquette rules. Seems those days are gone. But what did you pay for? Did the bride's family include you in the plans? How did you feel if not?
My youngest son is getting married in June. He and his fiance had it all planned out, we discussed it all. Then he left for basic. Everything has been changed and I know nothing now. Plus her family is wanting us to pay for things that are just out of our reach. hmmm how to handle it without making my son up set and being shut out?!?!?
Her mom wants us to pay for the rehearsal, no problem, BUT, she wants to include ALL their family. NO ONE will be in the wedding except my son and his fiance/the bride. YET her mom wants us to pay for 30 out of country guest.
What do you think? What did you do?
Dawn; daughter, wife, mom, MiMi
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