See what CafeMoms are saying about saving time this holiday season..
Hi. I'm new here but also can't believe I'm up at 2:53AM. My 25 year-old son still lives at home because his school work has taken longer to complete than expected. Kinda long story. Anyway, he left home to help a friend at 2PM and just got home about 40 minutes ago. I woke up and realized I hadn't heard him come home and then started worrying. When he did come home and I was watching TV he asked if I didn't feel well. I told him no, that wasn't why I was up. I said "It's 2AM and you weren't home and I worry. You've been gone since 2PM and I worry about you when you aren't home. But you're here now, go on to bed". He didn't say anything else but just went on to his room. Am I wrong in worrying? Should I have just kept my mouth shut. He doesn't take drugs that we are aware of, drinks moderately but I just absolutely hate it when he is out so late/early. Have I put a barrier in our relationship by saying that to him?