So, some of you may remember me, but if you don't I'll tell you this story as briefly as I can. My son got married 1 1/2 years ago to a girl he'd been with for 6 years. We always thought they weren't right for each other, but what can you do. They had a baby and it went down hill from there. My DIL started doing some crazy stuff and blaming my son for everything. She still, to this day, blames him for everything that went wrong. It must be nice to be so perfect!!! UGGHHH...I don't know what to say to him anymore. I just keep telling him that he will probably never understand why she did what she did, so try not to drive himself crazy over it. SHE left him, SHE stopped going to counseling, SHE kept his daughter from, SHE badgers him day after day, week after week, telling him everything he's done wrong. It's all his fault, right. He knows he's made mistakes, but I keep telling him that is what makes us human. You admit you made mistakes, you apologize, you move on. He's apologized so many times but she doesn't care. She gets to leave this relationship thinking he's the bad guy, it's all his fault, and that she's perfect and done nothing wrong. How can I help him with this? FYI, he has no insurance right now so cannot go to counseling himself, he will when he gets insurance. Right now I am his sounding board so please do not tell me to butt out, because I can't. I'm the only one he can talk to , at least on a consistant basis.