Hi everyone! I was directed to cm when I started looking for like-minded parents who are realising they have to cut back on the help they give to their adult children. I know it really doesn't help them in the long run, and it's certainly not making my life very pleasant. I hate saying no because of an inbuilt fear of people disliking me, and now my 20yr old has developed a sense of entitlement to whatever I have! Is anyone else embarking on this journey who wants to share the load?