I think I'm being selfish, but I don't want my daughter-in-law or my sons girlfriend (the mothers of my grandchildren) on cafemom because I feel as if this is my safe haven for venting about some of the things they would do. But, I think they would both benefit from being here - and my sons girlfriend may already be here. I don't think I'm going behind their back with what I would post here, I'm pretty open with giving them unwanted advice - I think we have great relationships and fortunately are able to talk about anything. I just don't want them to think I'm getting everyone involved with our family things. It's nice for me to be able to talk with others about some issues I may be having or getting some advice before I talk to them about it. I know I can always post Annonymously, but that takes the fun out of it for me. I'm here to get to know people, and that can't happen if I'm never "me".
So, if your daughters are on cafemom, how is that working?