Do you have guy friends?
How does that fit in with your dh, dd, ds???
Does your family accept your guy friends?
I have a guy friend, Herbie and I have been BFF since high school and most likely always will be.
Yes, my DH knows about Herbie and Kelly (his DW) knows about me. It's a trust thing and truth be known we loved each other as friends when we were teens and love each other as friends now.
Yes, I have guy friends (I worked in a predominately male field for 18 years)! Yes, Red is aware of my guy pals and yes, my family accepts them!
My friends Bill and Tony are my garage and yard sale buddies - they both have trucks
My friend Gary is my auto parts guy
My friend Mark is my auto repair guy
Paul is the computer whiz guy
I have several other guy friends too
Being the people person that I am, I have many female friends also
Sometimes the guys ask me to fix them up with one of my girlfriends or they will ask me to find them a rich woman - LOL
When I am seeing someone, I always introduce the man I am seeing to all of my friends - no one has ever had a problem with it
One of my best friends is a guy, and happens to be my ex hubby, but the reason he is an ex is he is gay, so no my current hubby doesn't have a problem with it :)
THE GUY FRIENDS I HAVE ARE ALSO HUBBYS FRIENDS..I PERSONALLY DONT HAVE GUY FRIENDS..HMMM MAYBE ITS TIME I GET ME SOME LOL....
Nope.......... not that I hang out with anymore. I use to have more guy friends than women when I was single though! My dh would not like me hanging out and sharing intimacy with other men and I wouldn't like him sharing with other women........ that's us though :-)
i have guy friends- dh knows about all of them is ok(or so he says he is) with them- his family knows notijng of them, because they dont know me very well and dont seem to want to...
i dont see my guy friends without my husband- its usually them and their wives and us..but i text tem and email them and facebook them..
I have a few that I talk to on FB Dh knows and I usually tell him what we discuss. I also draw boundaries around all my relationships. I think a healthy marriage or So relationship is like this.
Hurting Women need not hurt! there are plenty of Healed Women to speak into their lives.
I do have some on fb........ old school friends :-) but we dont hang out together and if we did I would bring hubby.. I too draw boundaries.
Quoting dodie_s:
I have a few that I talk to on FB Dh knows and I usually tell him what we discuss. I also draw boundaries around all my relationships. I think a healthy marriage or So relationship is like this.
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on May. 20, 2010 at 2:33 PM