Not sure where to post this but I would love some input and advice from all you ladies...my cousin is graduating college and having a grad party at a restaurant. She is my first cousin...(im 43 and she is 22)...anyway, my family is me, my husband and 3 sons ages 21, 16, 11. I responded to the party yesterday that we will all be there except my husband because he is working. I got response back from my aunt that the party is for adults only and that my oldest son is welcome to come with me in place of my husband. A little quick background...my uncle and I are 6 years apart...its my dads brother- dad is oldest in his family and my uncle is the youngest...my oldest son is good friends with my cousin (the one graduating )since they are the same age, and work in the same place. Also, I LIVE 3 houses away from my aunt and uncle. My middle son is the same age as my other cousin and they are close friends. I understand that maybe they have to keep the list small. I understand that even though I am the first cousin my kids are the second cousins...however the first cousins are all invited and some of them are under the age of 10 so I dont understand how I can be told this is an adult only party and my kids cant come???? I dont remember if the invitation envelope said Mr and Mrs or Family on it, but to be honest I would have questioned if it only said Mr. and Mrs....now I dont even want to go cause Im annoyed. Am I wrong?