Hi, I am barely still in my 40's but not feeling my age yet, except physically! I have a 25 year old son and a 15 year old daughter. I've been through a lot in the past 3 years. I was married 24 years and my husband took a job in Afghanistan and divorced me saying he guessed he's just a rolling stone. He was a good dad but has never found a job he wanted to work and only stayed there a year and a half. Now he lives 8 hours away from his daughter and more from our son. I happily remarried last fall! But I dealt with many ups and downs with my divorce, then lost my mother the next year and remarried and moved last fall. Now I am trying to settle into a calmer life again and let go of the old pain and guilt. I have my teen daughter and a part-time stepson at home who is 17. My DH has 2 older kids and 2 grands. That's an overview of me. I hope to find friends that have coped with similar changes, losses, and kids!