I know that we all have in-law issues.
I am looking for ways to tolerate my inlaws. They are far more important to my DH that I seem to be. When we go on holidays, we have to leave a key so that they can get in to our house. I feel raped everytime.
They are allowed to speak to me however they feel and I am to be accepting and tolerant at all times. Not even calling them on their ingorance when they are 10 and 12 or 45 and 50. I have had it and yet I can't say or do anything for fear of upsetting DH, to the point that he won't talk to me or have anything to do with me if I tell him how I really feel. He will even move to his room in the basement for a couple weeks, until I apologize to him and be all sappy nice to the *^$#$%%^^(*$W# inlaws.
Any ideas out there? Seperating doesn't work because of DH reaction. Disappearing doesn't work because of DH reaction.