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I Wanted To Back Hand Her

Posted by on Aug. 11, 2012 at 12:56 PM
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This is my 8 year old daughter, Isabel.   She has a port wine stain on the right side of her face, and has a medical condition called Sturge Weber Syndrome.   

While at Walmart yesterday, a lady walks by us, stops, stares at my daughter, and says "Oh my God.  What happened to her face?" IN FRONT of my daughter.   Isabel looked at me, while I said "Oh my Goodness.  What happened to your manners?" and I walked away!!   

Needless to say, I had a long talk with my daughter yesterday.   I think that she felt bad, but didn't cry. 

If you see anyone, especially a child, with something that isn't "normal", please don't say anything. 


 

This was her at birth.  So you can tell how much it's lightened with the laser treatments. 

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KW1280
by Bronze sister on Aug. 11, 2012 at 1:01 PM
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*taking my ear rings off * point her out to me.* Seriously when people say stupid things i go there with them then or ignore them
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sahlady
by It's a jen.thing :) on Aug. 11, 2012 at 1:01 PM
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I'm do sorry you had to run into that------
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KW1280
by Bronze sister on Aug. 11, 2012 at 1:01 PM
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BTW ur baby is beautiful
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grandmalove2012
by Sister on Aug. 11, 2012 at 1:04 PM


Quoting KW1280:

*taking my ear rings off * point her out to me.* Seriously when people say stupid things i go there with them then or ignore them

Usually I do ignore people, unless I know that my daughter hears it. 

grandmalove2012
by Sister on Aug. 11, 2012 at 1:04 PM


Quoting KW1280:

BTW ur baby is beautiful

thank you

roseytheriveter
by Sister on Aug. 11, 2012 at 1:12 PM
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 You can't fix stupid.  I'm so sorry this happened to your beautiful daughter.

sahlady
by It's a jen.thing :) on Aug. 11, 2012 at 1:13 PM
What is sturge syndrome?
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hopealways4019
by Bronze sister on Aug. 11, 2012 at 1:16 PM
She is a beautiful redhead. I teach my children not to make fun of other people differences.
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starlight1968
by 40ish hang out queen on Aug. 11, 2012 at 2:42 PM

 aww she's a cutie... and I agree "you can't fix stupid"..grrrr some people are so off ya wanna smack em straight don't ya?  HUGS

maryg38
by Proud Mary <3 on Aug. 11, 2012 at 2:48 PM
Sturge-Weber syndrome is a rare disorder that is present at birth. A child with this condition will have a port-wine stain birthmark (usually on the face) and nervous system problems.
Causes, incidence, and risk factors

The cause of Sturge-Weber is unknown. It is not thought to be passed down (inherited) through families.
Symptoms

Port-wine stain (more common on the face than the body)
Seizures

Paralysis or weakness on one side
Learning disabilities
Signs and tests

Glaucoma may be one sign of the condition.
Tests may include:
CT scan

MRI scan

X-rays
Treatment

Treatment is based on the patient's signs and symptoms, and may include:
Anticonvulsant medicines for seizures
Eye drops or surgery to treat glaucoma
Laser therapy for port-wine stains
Physical therapy for paralysis or weakness
Possible brain surgery to prevent seizures
Expectations (prognosis)

Most cases of Sturge-Weber are not life-threatening. The patient's quality of life depends on how well the symptoms (such as seizures) can be prevented or treated.
Patients will need to visit an ophthalmologist at least once a year to treat glaucoma. They also will need to see a neurologist to treat seizures and other nervous system symptoms.
Complications

Abnormal blood vessel growth in the skull
Continued growth of the port-wine stain
Developmental delays
Emotional and behavioral problems
Glaucoma, which may lead to blindness
Paralysis
Seizures
Calling your health care provider

The health care provider should check all birthmarks, including a port-wine stain. Seizures, vision problems, paralysis, and changes in alertness or mental state may mean the coverings of the brain are involved. These symptoms should be evaluated right away.
Prevention

There is no known prevention.
References

Haslam RHA. Neurocutaneous syndromes. In: Kliegman RM, Behrman RE, Jenson HB, Stanton BF, eds. Nelson Textbook of Pediatrics. 18th ed. Philadelphia, Pa: Saunders Elsevier; 2007:chap 596.
Review Date: 11/14/2011.
Reviewed by: Chad Haldeman-Englert, MD, Wake Forest School of Medicine, Department of Pediatrics, Section on Medical Genetics, Winston-Salem, NC. Review provided by VeriMed Healthcare Network. Also reviewed by David Zieve, MD, MHA, Medical Director, A.D.A.M., Inc.


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What is sturge syndrome?
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