My daughter 17 has had 4 dates in the last two weeks with this boy. Seems nice for the 2 min. I have spent with him at the door. But now he wants to come over and cook dinner for our family. First of,f if you want to do that call and ask when a good day would be, dont tell us you want to come over TONIGHT. Secondly, that seems a bit fast; two weeks and he wants to insert himself into the family meal. This is making me a bit uncomfortable now.
I didnt find the idea odd.... just that he seems to be rushing things. 4 dates in 2 weeks, just happen to bump into each other at a concert, and now wanting to come make us dinner. That is WAY too much for a 17 yr old boy (any age for that matter). That is odd, too much on the obsessive side for my comfort. If all of this had occurred over the course of a month I wouldnt have odd feelings about it.
Any way, we told them no for tonight but told our daughter that she could invite him over this Saturday afternoon for the pool party we already have planned.