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Posted by on Dec. 12, 2012 at 12:26 PM
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Darren.... dummy, told me he bought some stuff with cash. I paid a bill... I got over drafted. I gave him my cash... $90. He had at least $50 (probably more). He claims he gave me $50 back. Uhhh no. He now has no idea where $90+ went. Seriously has no clue. :(

There was money in my other acct. I hate it when he is so scatterbrained. This is not the first time.
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BL2010
by BL on Dec. 12, 2012 at 1:25 PM

OUCH

LACHESIS
by Rachel in AZ on Dec. 12, 2012 at 1:32 PM
He has no common sense. I do. He is book smart, I am not. His lack of common sense drives me mad. :::::banging my head:::::
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BL2010
by BL on Dec. 12, 2012 at 1:45 PM

That's a lot of money to not know what happened with it.. Maybe he bought you a Christmas present and just doesn't want to tell you.

LACHESIS
by Rachel in AZ on Dec. 12, 2012 at 1:51 PM
Yeah... no. :(

He has done this before. I only gave him my cash because hr said he was buying something with it and ended up using the debit card

I asked him when he got home that and he said he used cash. I could have moved $$$ if I knew I needed to.
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manilowgal
by on Dec. 12, 2012 at 2:56 PM
Yeah, it's a pain sharing a bank account for that reason. I let dh handle our acct just cuz it keeps me from going crasy. I have a separate acct (small) that I use unless it's something scheduled that dh knows about. That way I don't cause an overdraft. He just transfers $$ when I get low. It works for us.
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firelites
by Anne on Dec. 12, 2012 at 3:04 PM

 well x-mas is coming ,maby there will be a nice surprise he does not want Mama to know about gift

LACHESIS
by Rachel in AZ on Dec. 12, 2012 at 3:09 PM
Naw, we are tight on funds. My oldest will be home for 3 weeks so I am happy. Plus I really don't like gifts. :/ Or holidays.

Quoting firelites:

 well x-mas is coming ,maby there will be a nice surprise he does not want Mama to know about gift

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LACHESIS
by Rachel in AZ on Dec. 12, 2012 at 3:11 PM
He always does this... well not always but too often.

He just doesn't think and does not remember what he spent cash on or doesn't want me to know, like fast food daily.


I found SN unopened back, Costco size in the freezer thus morning. :(


Quoting manilowgal:

Yeah, it's a pain sharing a bank account for that reason. I let dh handle our acct just cuz it keeps me from going crasy. I have a separate acct (small) that I use unless it's something scheduled that dh knows about. That way I don't cause an overdraft. He just transfers $$ when I get low. It works for us.
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gonecrazi
by on Dec. 12, 2012 at 4:24 PM
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 You guys sound like DH and I. 

starlight1968
by 40ish hang out queen on Dec. 12, 2012 at 4:54 PM

 men...sheesh

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