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40ish and beyond... 40ish and beyond...

I think I might go on a diet

Posted by on Feb. 5, 2013 at 8:49 PM
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I gave up dieting for the 4 yrs I was with my  ex.He was one of those rare guys who wasnt worried about 5 extra lbs.Now he is gone I realize older I get thinner I have to be to attract men

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sahlady
by It's a jen.thing :) on Feb. 5, 2013 at 8:59 PM

I think a good personality attracts better men than a tiny waist.  But good health is important.  I would be careful about dieting, maybe just start by eating healthier and exercising more.

I know that out here there are some singles meet ups that are based on exercise and out door activities.  If I was ever single again I think I would go that route before I tried a dating site.  Really get to see the person in action and out side trying something new.  No pretences, no fussy dressing up, just fun and active out side during the day.

dana63
by Momma of 40ish on Feb. 6, 2013 at 6:24 AM

 I don't think "thin" is what attracts men. I agree with Jen that its a good personality and that zest for life. I am some what overweight and I can still turn heads just by my confidence in myself and how I handle me.

BL2010
by BL on Feb. 6, 2013 at 8:15 AM

Hi and welcome. Personally, I think it's what's on the inside that counts more. You have to ask yourself if YOU'RE happy the way you are. Are you happy and healthy? If not and YOU want to lose weight, then great. But don't do it for anyone else but YOU.

25beengoodtome
by Crazy LiL' Sister on Feb. 6, 2013 at 2:31 PM

Do you really HAVE to have a man?

 Sorry, that WAS a rude thing to say. I'mkinda looking for a friend/ companion.I'm NOT looking for the sex - just thetypical things we women enjoy. A true friend, hugs, share movies, time and everything BESIDE the sexual steam. I'm just not into sex these last 10 years.

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