Please...reply to this post only if you are "Slim and Pretty".
.... Because I don't give a sh!t if you are a fantastic person, great parent, have a great sense of humor, can raise a successful college educated family on your own, are a Doctor, Lawyer, a CEO, an author, a Nobel prize winner, can ride a motorcycle, have scaled Mt. Everest, won the Boston marathon, are financially independent, can hold conversations with the homeless and the President alike, have read everything there is to know about about world history, appreciate art, music, English literature, are wealthy, can sail a boat, found a cure for 3 diseases, interested in photography, have traveled the world extensively, are an expert in demolition, are an expert in hang gliding, are an astronaut, a gourmet chef, or any other number of things that would hint at you being more than just my arm candy.
I DON"T WANT KNOW ANYTHING ABOUT YOU THAT IS REMOTELY INTERESTING OR SUSTAINING FOR ANY KIND OF RELATIONSHIP IF YOU ARE NOT SLIM AND PRETTY FIRST! IT IS ALL ABOUT PLEASING MY EGO FIRST. Nevermind that I probably look like crap, myself.
Thank heavens men are stupid enough to make this their first request when seeking women through match-making services, so a woman can weed them out right off the bat! And you are doing that, aren't you ladies? Who in their right mind would answer an ad with this as the first --or even fortieth-- requirement? Even if you were 'slim and pretty" AND had accomplished any of the things above, WHY would you want to be with someone who would be just as happy with someone who had absolutely no brains, personality, personal accomplishments, etc.,? --they just happened to meet the FIRST two requirements.
I just read this article on matchmaking businesses that said the main thing most men request is a woman that is "slim and pretty". Most women ask for someone that is 'loyal and honest'.
Well, I guess they're getting that --These men are being loyal and honest TO/FOR THEMSELVES in requesting first, these superficial, shallow requirements for a mate. They don't want people, they want blow up dolls that do nothing but sit there waiting to please them. SO SAD.
Ladies, be careful what you wish for!