A bunch of my friends have spent the last 2 days cleaning my house and rearranging my furniture for better handicap access. If I need a wheelchair then my home will be clean and ready. My son is going to move my bedroom to the first floor where I used to have it. So even if the worst comes then it will be ok. I had decided on school of choice and love the school but it is in a different town. I called and they finally came back and told me if I am no longer able to drive they will transport the girls to school so will not have to change schools! They rock. I have spent time arranging my bils to be autopaid and now just have to do my Advance Directive for my health care and the temporary guardianship of my two little girls. They are staying with my oldest daughter. I am trying to be prepared and nott leave an awful mess. I have a coworker who really needs new housing right now and am trying to convince her to house sit. It will all fall into place...I know it. It is falling into place even though I did not have much time.