My soon to be 20yo son's biological father has never seen my son. When I got pregnant, he wanted me to have an abortion and I refused. I was 21, had a great paying job, and had no fears in being a single mom. He wanted out and I let him go. When my son was born, I sent the father a picture and he claimed he wanted to see his son, but never showed. I recently found him on Facebook and have been debating telling my son or sending his biodad a pic of my son.
My first husband came along when my son was about 18 months old and has been the only father my son has ever known. My son asked about his biodad once when he was about 10 but I didnt know how to contact him then. He hasnt ever asked about him since.
Should I tell my son, notify his biodad on Facebook, or leave it alone?