No judgments please…just give me your thoughts.
Okay before the judgments start....I want to say that the situation I am describing will come off sounding like high school, but I want you to know that I am pretty much the innocent party here....so here it goes.
I recently deleted my facebook page due to the immaturity of the people I went to HS with. It was annoying so I got rid of my page.
My friend (calls me daily) called me and told me that someone made a nasty comment about me because they thought I deleted them as a friend rather than deleting my page. Ok, big deal, I don't care. BUT, a mutual friend of the friend that calls me all the time is now contacting my friend asking what is going on....also chimed in on the post by the immature whacko that posted stuff about me. Now, the friend who calls me all the time is telling me that she is no good, playing dumb and is NOT a real friend to her but all of a sudden she labels her as an "acquaintance" YET my "friend" who calls me all the time is still chatting with the her, conversing with her and remaining friends with her on facebook.
I waited a week to see what would happen, and I confronted my friend about it. We got into an argument. She accused me of not trusting her etc. That is not true. I just don't understand friends anymore. I am a loyal friend and I have people's backs. I feel that if this friend of mine really was trustworthy she would be on my side since all she did was tell me the other friend was no good.
We are now at a standstill. She told me I am way too controlling which is BS. I am not...just expressed my feelings and made a point. I guess she really isn't my friend. I will tell you this...she tells me intimate details of her other friend's lives which tells me she is probably telling things about my life but she always says she doesn't.
She also has job problems. She tattles to her boss about every little thing and then also behind other co-worker's backs. I am beginning to think she is a sh*t stirrer, not just at work, but in her personal life as well.
What are your thoughts? Thank you. :)