on June 7, 2014. We have been together for 13 years as friends and a couple for 11 of those years. We will be having the ceremony and reception in our backyard.. My oldest daughter is going to be my matron of honor and my youngest daugter is going to be my maid of honor. Jerry's brother is going to be his bestman and my youngest son is going to be a groomsman. My Granddaughter will be the flower girl and my Grandson will be the ring bearer. Jerry's nephew has been learning to play the electric guitar and he is going to learn the wedding march so he can play it for us. He will be 13 next month and his eyes lit up like he had been given the best present ever when Jerry asked him if he would like to play it for us. Our friend Gilly got ordained so he can perform the ceremony for us and Jerry's sister Cyndi will be in charge of the guest book . Our reception is going to be a potluck barbecue. We are providing the hamburgers, hot dogs, and condiments. Gilly is providing the buns and we have asked everyone else to bring a dish to share. We are still trying to decide what we want for the wedding cake. He wants carrot cake but i'm not a big fan of it and I think the wedding cake should be something that we both like. I think we will probably have a Groom's cake and the actual wedding cake.