Meanwhile I have boxes in the bedroom, one mattress is against the wall and the other one my dd had been using it. My sister came and we went to meet my mom and son at this restaurant and we didn't come home until 11. My mom doesn't want to sleep in my dds bed. Instead she took a chair and she if sleeping there. She was complaining that we are something she said, and that I have things in the living room. I said yes, my sons toys, he plays with them. I also have done art work on the floor and on chairs. I need to fix the closet before figuring out where to put this paintings. I don't like them to hang them. So I rather they go in the closet.
So, do you think it's normal to complain so much about a few boxes and toys and don't sleep on the bed bc it's on the floor? Or is it really that bad to have my place messy bc I haven't felt kind cleaning it? She's only here until Saturday but I'm sure she'll leave tomorrow.
I said to her, I thought you say you are rugged and don't mind bad conditions? This isn't as bad as I've seen in other places or situations. I was homeless a few years ago and having a place is better than none. So a few boxes or toys don't bother me. My dd was crying bc my mom told her when she marries, if she doesn't keep up the place as she should. Hey husband will leave her. I came in and dd is crying, I said what happened? She told me and I said, well if he is a good husband he'll help instead of expecting you to do it all. At least is what I think a relationship should be. You are a team not a business with a boss and employees. I said if not, the guy isn't worth it. My mom shut up after that and fix that snack chair and she is supposed to be sleeping. I don't even want to know. I'm sure she is very upset. She was saying her house is perfectly clean. She has a maid who cleans for her daily. I'm not even home on a daily basis. I work retail and my schedule changes a lot. The last thing I want is cook and clean. I want to relax and sleep. Ugh!!!
Venting over 😭😭😭