Just wondering if this would offend you if you were pregnant
A friend of mine ( online) is pregnant, and I believe due to deliver in November. She has posted pics on FB and holey moley......I know there is only one baby, how can anyone get that huge?And Its just the beginning of August!
I need to point out, I am some freak that has given birth 5 times without ever showing that I was pregnant at all. I never needed preggo cloths, eaxch time showing up at the hospital they wondered why I was there, and OMG, how far along I was UNDER due....every OBGYN had to take extra sonograms to make sure the baby was growing because my belly measurements never changed, and on the last pregnancy I actually kept it a secret from people that saw me everyday. I just came home one day with a baby, everyone wanted to know whos baby it was. That was really fun, but the part about standing in long lines and no one giving up seats for me was not. Heck, I had to load a costco size bag of dogfood in my truck while I was in labor once......no one suspected I was pregnant.( My doc said I would deliver withen 24 hours and my dogs had no food...go figure my priorities that day..)
Back to my online friends pics. And anyone in real life........I am always amazed , astonished how large normal women get. And so I always want to say, gosh you are SO big! That kid is gonna be a quarterback! But I step back, and then think....*I* am the one that is unusual here. Did it ever bother you to have someone comment on how large you were? Or did you take it as a compliment that you were growing a healthy baby? ( Oh, BTW, all my kids were between 7-8 poounds, with no complications at all, I just never grew a bump or showed)