The Guidelines in 40ish is simple, We are women who like to have fun, and share the ups and downs of everyday life as a mom/grandma/wife....We like to joke and play and let our hair down to laughter and humor.. We cant say everyday will be a rollercoaster ride but you never know what the girls will do when they get their silly pants on...Each forum has a purpose. We have one for menopause and one for Prayer/good thoughts. Please look at our Let's Talk forum and see if this is the group for you. It will show you each forum we have and explain a little about each one... We also want to remind you that we are a private group but The Let's Talk forum is open to all of Cafemom to visit, so please don't place any personal information in this forum. We suggest you come in and start in the General forum for your introduction.

Chatroom can be open by anyone so if you want to chat please feel free to open it. Please be respectful to other chatters. They have a private IM so if you and another chatter wants to chat privately.

This group has the right to agree to disagree, we dont do drama, as we can get that at home.. Participations isnt a must but we would like everyones input. If you are thinking about joining the group to bash or call out a member then please just keep moving on, we don't allow this type of behavior in our group.

Also this is important.. The one thing that makes this group different is when you enter it, you are not a member of a group but Family, We talk like sisters and act like it too..So if you are coming in the group to cause drama please dont bother coming in. If you are coming in to sell us something again dont bother. We are a fair bunch of ladies and we would like you to be as fair..

So Bring in your silly Pants, your coffee, tea or Coke.. We also like Brownines and enjoy the ride.. If you become addicted.. Join the club we all are too...Welcome!!!!

PSST....If your home page is blank chances are we wont accept your application {not trying to be rude but protected of the group} Please tell use something about you in the application..  If someone tells you about the group, let us know so we put your application in faster.. Thanks~

**** This group is dedicated to Catgirl (AKA Shelia) and all the love ones we lost to Cancer, Also to Lisa465 who loved her sisters and being apart of 40ish. We dedicate 40ish to our queen Conniekaye who is doing the Happy Dance with Jesus. R.I.P Sisters..