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When did your parents teach you about sex?

Posted by on Feb. 8, 2010 at 11:53 PM
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and how early have you brought the subject up to your own kids?

Posted by on Feb. 8, 2010 at 11:53 PM
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Spiffy11979
by on Feb. 9, 2010 at 12:04 AM

My parents didn't really teach me about sex. I learned everything in Health class. I had to start really young with my daughter because I was sexually assualted when I was 11 and I wanted her to know her no-no spots and if someone touched them to tell me. She is eight now and when I noticed her breasts developing I started the talks about the cycle and everything. You have to be honest and straight forward with them but at their level. Even though I was talking about these things to her I kept it age appropriate. As the years go on I will continue to talk to her about it and make sure she knows that she can talk to me about anything.

singlemomof2nok
by Group Mod - Tanya on Feb. 9, 2010 at 9:10 AM

My parents didn't

shymom24
by on Feb. 9, 2010 at 9:13 AM

I was taught it was dirty and disgusting and I am still dealing with body issues.

I have talked openly and age appropriately with my children as they ask questions. If they are old enough to ask, I feel they are old enough to hear an answer age appropriately. I want them to have a very healthy body image and understand sex and not be embarassed or feel dirty by it.

emarin77
by on Feb. 9, 2010 at 10:42 AM

My dad gave me a book on woman sexuality around age 15.  I asked a few questions to him and he answered back.  My son is only 20 months, I'll proberly start talking when he starts asking his questions in his teens.

marbear37
by on Feb. 9, 2010 at 10:46 AM

they didnt tell me anything i guess they thought i didnt need to know

AMom29
by on Feb. 9, 2010 at 4:42 PM

Never except to tell me that I would be thrown out of the house if I dared have it before I married.  My children are too young yet to have that talk.

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randerykah
by on Feb. 9, 2010 at 4:45 PM

I may have been about 7 years old. I understood really well where and how babies were made.

mumsy2three
by Shauna on Feb. 9, 2010 at 4:52 PM

My parents didn't. I learned from friends and health class.

I started talking to my dd about sex when she was 11 and had the starting puberty program at school when she was in fifth grade. My sons are still young.

ExpressoManiac
by on Feb. 9, 2010 at 4:53 PM

I never had them to speak to me about such things. By the time I was 15, I studied my biology book, checked out a medical encylopedia, and search my own enclyopedia to learn about the reasons I was feeling that way. It made everything easier for me once I understood the basic functions of sex was a natural biological process. By the time I (17 years old) got my first boyfriend, my dad explained that it was natural but he would prefer that I wait until I was sure it was something I wanted to do. Mom was too puritanical about the situation. My son is 15 now and I gave him the medical books, the encylopedias, and the biology book. He already knew a little. As he said, he figured it out on his own. Discussing it from a biological perspective makes it easier. Plus, it makes the religious aspects easier to accept and follow.

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