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What age can you leave your child home alone ? PIOG

Posted by on Mar. 18, 2010 at 9:09 PM
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At what age can a child be left home alone ? I googled it and I read an article that said in depends on the state. I live in Mass and there is no set age. I am wondering what you guys think ? 

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Posted by on Mar. 18, 2010 at 9:09 PM
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nei-nei
by on Mar. 18, 2010 at 9:09 PM

Our state age is 14 (Alabama).

momof3_dll
by Corrie on Mar. 18, 2010 at 9:32 PM

In MN there isn't any set law either which is scary but there are guidelines according to the child's maturity and how long they're left alone.  My 10yr old son is able to handle 1-2hrs alone and it's not often that he is alone. 

billssweety
by Cyndi on Mar. 18, 2010 at 9:55 PM

Cali doesn't have a set age either....we started leaving ours home alone at age 12.

Andl2ea
by Andrea on Mar. 18, 2010 at 9:56 PM

 i live in washington state and i believe here its 12 yrs old.  my kids are not staying home alone that early.  my older son is 11 yrs old and he is nowhere near mature enough to handle any problem that arises if im not at home.  if my kids can prove themselves to be responsible at age 14 then ill think about it.  my younger son wont be left alone with his brother either because when those 2 get together baddd things happen lol.

mfulks
by Member on Mar. 18, 2010 at 11:24 PM

im in ky and if i remember right our age to leave a kid at a home is 13

bugfree
by on Mar. 18, 2010 at 11:49 PM

There are only a couple states that have min ages listed:  http://www.latchkey-kids.com/latchkey-kids-age-limits.htm

For Washington state they suggest a child be at least 10, but there is no minimum age.  I know of kids that are left home alone as kindergartners after school until there parents get home from work and there is nothing that can be done about it because there is no official minimum age.

momof754
by Marilyn on Mar. 19, 2010 at 12:22 AM

in my opinion, if your state does not have a set age, it would depend on the maturity of the child in question. i would also not leave that child home for long periods at a  time

coffee.crisp
by on Mar. 19, 2010 at 1:16 AM

I was about to jump in that WA state doesn't have a minimum age and I know that because I grew up there, and in 5th grade was home alone after school until my parents got home.  I also watched my brother who is 2 years younger than me.  But... I was always a mature, and not-very-adventurous child.

SalemWitchChild
by Member on Mar. 19, 2010 at 6:57 AM

 I'm in KY. I guess from the above poster the age min is 13. But honestly I was not left home alone till around 15. IMO I could have handled it at a younger age. But understand why my mother felt uncomfortable with that. I'll likley do the same. My DD is very mature for her age. But she won't be staying at home alone anytime soon.

missyj1977
by on Mar. 19, 2010 at 8:00 AM

My kids are 11, 11, 10. They stay home a couple hours at a time, never longer and there is always ATLEAST 2 of them there!

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