I am in the middle of planning my son's 9th Birthday party. Its going to be a bit bigger than normal since he now has friends from 2 different schools he wants to invite and Hubby and I are REALLY on a strict budget. I was budgeting for plates, napkins, and some decorations (I only get 16 designer plates adn 16 desert plates to go with the theme everything else is plain) When I started talking about Goody Bags Hubby stops and says "Isn't he getting too old for that?" I was puzzled figured I had a good year before worrying about him being too old. Now I don't know. If I shouldn't that would save so much money (even if I buy stuff at the $1 store) and I try not to give candy due to the fact my kids aren't allowed anything with Red 40, Yellow 5. What should I do?