Yes I'm seriously asking this

[lovearcen]

Ok first off I know I'm attractive but I don't think I'm all that But it just seems that my looks are the only thing people notice about me
I have a hard time keeping friends cause it seems they all end up wanting to have sex with me or I suspect ( in the past ) don't want me around their men because of the attention I get
It sucks so bad and I feel lonely & disrespected
I've even had issues with my mom and her being jeleous of me
Why can't people look past my looks and see ME I don't understand
I even used to try to not be pretty by doing things like picking at zits and wearing ugly ass clothes and cutting all my hair off
Do all pretty girls go through this ?
I have absolutely no one to talk to about this and debated with my self all day about making this post
Once Again I do not think I'm all that but im not understanding the reactions I'm getting from others

[yourpassion]

don't feel badly because you were blessed with looks.  you shouldn't be ashamed of it, and don't try and make yourself less attractive.  it's their problem if they are jealous or insecure.   i know it's frustrating to you, but you'll find friends who like you for you and the pretty woman you are!

[lovearcen]

thanx

Quoting yourpassion:

don't feel badly because you were blessed with looks.  you shouldn't be ashamed of it, and don't try and make yourself less attractive.  it's their problem if they are jealous or insecure.   i know it's frustrating to you, but you'll find friends who like you for you and the pretty woman you are!

[yourpassion]

i'm sure it doesn't help, me just saying it. but not everyone's like that.  :-)

Quoting lovearcen:

thanx

Quoting yourpassion:

don't feel badly because you were blessed with looks.  you shouldn't be ashamed of it, and don't try and make yourself less attractive.  it's their problem if they are jealous or insecure.   i know it's frustrating to you, but you'll find friends who like you for you and the pretty woman you are!

[lovearcen]

seems everyone ive come in contact with is  aside from family   lol

 everyone just seems to try to get into my pants  women and men

Quoting yourpassion:

i'm sure it doesn't help, me just saying it. but not everyone's like that.  :-)

Quoting lovearcen:

thanx

Quoting yourpassion:

don't feel badly because you were blessed with looks.  you shouldn't be ashamed of it, and don't try and make yourself less attractive.  it's their problem if they are jealous or insecure.   i know it's frustrating to you, but you'll find friends who like you for you and the pretty woman you are!

[tydot]

Girlfriend am with u all the way! Same here.

[ivylynn0711]

Don't let anyone bring u down for how u look be happy that you are pretty and hold Ur head up.....if u ever nerd someone to tlkin to u can message me

[OHgirlinCA]

 I understand completely where you're coming from.  You should be proud of who you are, and being attractive is part of that.  Don't hide it because of others' insecurities.  

Women perceive me as a threat.  They assume I'm a dumb blonde.  They assume I'm a bitch.  Both myself, and my daughter, deal with it. 

Men are nice to me, but I make it clear I'm unavailable.  When I was single, men were scared to talk to me for the fear of rejection. I usually had to make it known that I was interested in talking to them.  

I've learned women respond better if you compliment them on something first, and then listen to what they have to say.  That, at least, breaks the ice.  After that, if they still don't want anything to do with me, I let it roll off my back.  They're not worth my time and I don't want friends like that anyways. 

[MariaVonne]

 I've gone through things similar to you, but I believe once people get to know you (me) things change (25% of the time). Maybe you act a certain way?? I don't know. But I still keep people at a distance because of what i've been through and the people that are genuine I hold them close. I think sites like this are a great way to meet people because your getting to know someone based on what you have in common, not  being judged or judging right off the bat. Anyways, whatever the case... never ever try to make yourself look less attractive thats just plain crazy, be happy with whatever you were blessed with, I know I am. Just enjoy life the best way you can and if your a good person then pitty those that don't want to know the good person you may be.

[htreveth]

Maybe look into why and how you are attracting people like that??? Not honestly trying to be snotty but the majority of people are not like that. If they are you have to start being introspective and figure out why You are attracting people like that. Either that or move lol.

[yourpassion]

here's from my 6yr old as he saw your avatar, "she doesn't look pretty" .  i told him, she is pretty but sometimes tries not to be.  his reply, "she should just be pretty". 

there you go! hahaha...