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Scheduling Sex!

Posted by on Mar. 1, 2012 at 11:58 AM
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 How many of you actually do this? schedule sex....

Last night my boyfriend and I seen a commercial for T.V segment on cheduling sex.   My BF and I have gotten to the point were we have sex maybe once every 2 - 3 weeks.  It actually makes me sad because we use to do it at least 2x a week and we have only been together for about 2.5yrs and im not sure what to make of this..

i understand our lack of sex could be due to recent stress and the fact that my BF is now 43 and im 33..regardless

 

by on Mar. 1, 2012 at 11:58 AM
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yourpassion
by on Mar. 1, 2012 at 12:01 PM

we don't schedule it, but a woman i know, her and  her dh did and it worked out well.  whatever works.

KylesMom409
by Linnette on Mar. 1, 2012 at 12:07 PM
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We don't schedule it either and half the time we're lucky if we have the energy to do it at all! LOL
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steelcrazy
by on Mar. 1, 2012 at 12:07 PM
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Whatever floats your boat.  My hubby is 43 and I am nearly 40 (yikes!) and we have sex at least 4 times a week, but usually more often than that.  We've never scheduled sex because I'd hate for it to feel like a chore.  It helps that our kids are slightly older too.  When they were infants/toddlers they really cramped our style. lol 

Jinxed8
by Gold Member on Mar. 1, 2012 at 1:17 PM
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we never schedule sex, it takes the passion and the spontanuity out of it. 

mybabysmama35
by Bronze Member on Mar. 1, 2012 at 1:23 PM
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We don't schedule sex. I think that would take the fun out of it. We just take advantage of the times we don't have our girls at home. They spend the night with my parents a few nights a week. I am 36 and dh is almost 38. 

Mommytomuffin
by on Mar. 1, 2012 at 1:24 PM
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 DH and I have a DS who is 9 months old. I am a SAHM and DH works all week. Some weeks we will have sex 3 times in one week and there are other weeks where we just don't because of how tired we are. If it were up to me we would have sex everyday because even though I am exhausted, I still want to have sex lol. He just gets so tired from working. I am sure once our son is a little older it will be a lot better in the sex department. He is our first and will be our only child.

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syoumans77
by on Mar. 1, 2012 at 2:13 PM
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We don't, but have been told by our marriage therapist that we should.  Before DD was born/conceived, we did it at least twice a day.  Now we're lucky to do it once a week.  DH is 29 and I'm 34, so logically we should be having it more.  Maybe it's the stress/lack of sleep from having a 14 month old.

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darrensmom11
by on Mar. 1, 2012 at 2:28 PM
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Sometimes I do with my DH. . . Cuz it excites him and makes him look forward to the L8 evening. :) other times no. I watch the kids all day so I look forward to sleeping. . . He works . . And no matter how tired HE is. . He's always got enough energy for the DEED. Ay yie yie
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snowi
by on Mar. 2, 2012 at 7:36 AM
It would not work for me but if it works for u go for it.
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hache2
by on Mar. 2, 2012 at 7:40 AM
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If you've got to schedule it to make it work, do it!
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