Little background.....my MIL is a drinker and my DH and I believe she's dabbling in other things also. My DD will be 6 months old in a week. MIL didn't see her first grandbaby until Christmas...my DD was born in October! She was at the hospital but couldn't go near her because she was sick. The only reason she saw her on Christmas was because we were going to the same place for the holiday. She then came over on 12/29 to visit with her in the morning. (Which I prefer...she hasn't been drinking yet if its in the am) visit went well.....that's the last we have seen her or heard from her!!!! She did call this week only because its Easter and were invited to the same place again. I said something to her on the phone about making an effort to see DH....she said she was sick for 3 months, asked why she didn't call.....she had no voice, asked her why she didn't send a text.....it wasn't working on het phone. Uggg its all bullshit. So now yet again she will see her today because of the holiday....not because of any effort on her part. I feel bad for my DH....he had a rough childhood because of her. He became an amazing man and an even mire amazing father. I want to bash her. I mean the excuses are so pathetic. It's sad enough that we will never let her watch our DH or be alone with her for that matter but I guess we were hoping she would show an effort for Emma :( if she doesn't start showing an effort after me saying something.....were DONE. She won't be welcome to see her. Sorry so long just so annoyed.
on Apr. 7, 2012 at 7:05 AM