Join the Meeting Place for Moms!
Talk to other moms, share advice, and have fun!

(minimum 6 characters)

30 Something Moms 30 Something Moms

It's over

Posted by on Apr. 13, 2012 at 10:47 PM
  • 16 Replies
I haven't told my family and friends yet because I don't know where to go from here. My SO and I have been together a little over 5 years... I have two kids the youngest is 6 so he's pretty much been there all her life....
We've been trying to work it out and everything but it's always been a failure and it's due to communication... We have trouble expressing our issues with one another. We can talk and bs all day but when it matters it's always a fight

Today he told me he was done. Three years ago I sold my house (I was planning on moving closer to my family) and he asked me to move in because the distance would strain our relationship.. And I did. After a year of paying for storage I got rid of most of my stuff... So now I have nothing. I still love him very much but he is done. I worry how my kids will be and how I'm suppose to start all over. Everyone says kids are resilient but they have already been to hell and back with my divorce


***update: today got shitty. I haven't left because my kids have 6 weeks left of school and I have to find a place for us that will take my two dogs too- after he was gone all day yesterday and we were suppose to attend a family gathering for his family today (I assume he hasn't told them anything and I would be expected to attend) he stayed gone all morning and afternoon. As I'm in the kitchen cooking dinner (his keeps his son on Sunday nights) he is talking to his son in front of my kids about where they will be going out to dinner. It's like he's trying to hurt me now... I'm fighting back tears as I stand over the stove
Posted on CafeMom Mobile
by on Apr. 13, 2012 at 10:47 PM
Add your quick reply below:
You must be a member to reply to this post.
Replies (1-10):
e-doolittle
by Kelly on Apr. 13, 2012 at 10:49 PM

 Hugs! 

LadyStork
by on Apr. 13, 2012 at 10:51 PM
Sorry to hear that. Dh and I are in a similar position. :( is councelling an option?
Posted on CafeMom Mobile
mom4fun695
by on Apr. 13, 2012 at 10:53 PM

so sorry : (  

{HUGS} 

lalasmama2007
by Ticia on Apr. 13, 2012 at 11:11 PM
I'm sorry! Hugs!
Mari6443
by Gold Member on Apr. 13, 2012 at 11:16 PM
I'm so sorry! (((HUGS!!!))
Posted on CafeMom Mobile
TinaG34
by on Apr. 13, 2012 at 11:17 PM
No last year he had suggested counseling... I went and he never came and won't now
Posted on CafeMom Mobile
TinaG34
by on Apr. 13, 2012 at 11:18 PM
I just want to cry, scream, and throw something with the emotions that are running through me right now
Posted on CafeMom Mobile
Mari6443
by Gold Member on Apr. 13, 2012 at 11:43 PM
We are all here for you, if you really need someone to talk to. Don't hesitate to PM any one of us. Seriously. I really hope everything works out well for you.


Quoting TinaG34:

I just want to cry, scream, and throw something with the emotions that are running through me right now

Posted on CafeMom Mobile
Mari6443
by Gold Member on Apr. 13, 2012 at 11:44 PM
I am sorry! I am here for you if you need someone to talk to. You can PM me anytime. HUGS!!!


Quoting LadyStork:

Sorry to hear that. Dh and I are in a similar position. :( is councelling an option?

Posted on CafeMom Mobile
mommyofgirl1974
by on Apr. 14, 2012 at 10:51 AM

Hugs!!! So sorry.

Add your quick reply below:
You must be a member to reply to this post.
Join the Meeting Place for Moms!
Talk to other moms, share advice, and have fun!

(minimum 6 characters)

close Join now to connect to
other members!
Connect with Facebook or Sign Up Using Email

Already Joined? LOG IN