At 6:30 this morning, like every morning, I go and wake up my kids and DS goes and takes a shower. When he gets done and dressed, he walks out in long, thick, heavy army pants, a long sleeve, and a pullover. Let me clarify, we are in Texas, the high today is 90, I ask him to go and change and naturally he stomps into the other room, slams his door and changes.
He comes out, I ask him to brush his teeth before we leave for school and he stomps into the kitchen, knocking over the babygate in his cute fit, runs the water, and doesn't brush his teeth, but lies and says he did.
We go to leave, he opens the door and the dog ran out of the apartment (we caught him on the stairs. We live on a busy street) and I yell....again....I ask him if he would be able to help and bring down the laundry for me since I have the dog, the baby, and 2 bags. Nope, no help, so I carry it down.
This was just in a 30 minute period, I am leaving things out, like the gun argument, holding the baby, and turning off lights. Most of the things I ask him to do are normal morning rituals.
He's a good kid, when everything is going his way, he gets what he wants, and it is all about him. I know that some of that is normal, but it's all the time. He's spoiled and yes it's my fault and I know that. I just don't know what to do to make it stop.
Is this just pre-teen attitude or am I just making more excuses for him?
Cameron Trev & Gracie