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how often dod you do the deed

Posted by on May. 10, 2012 at 12:13 PM
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My dh wants to have sex everyday. im not in the mood im tired all the time running after a 16mo. i do let him have it every other day. so how often do you have sex

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BonitaM
by on May. 10, 2012 at 12:15 PM
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It really depends on DH.  I have the higher sex drive so I never turn him away.  Sometimes it's 2 or 3 times a week and sometimes it's 2 or 3 times a day....sometimes I have to wait two very long weeks for any at all. 

Knightquester
by Silver Member on May. 10, 2012 at 12:29 PM

We typically do it about every evening so between 5-9 times a week.  We'll cuddle at night after a bit of flirting and messing with each other we'll end up doing it, it's just something we enjoy.  There are days where we can't or aren't feeling well.  There are also times when we're more frisky and wake up and do it, then later in the evening get frisky again.

MommyJDTJ
by on May. 10, 2012 at 12:41 PM
Not often enough...maybe 2-3 times a week, this is including when he just wants bj.

I will never turn him away, but I won't initiate. DH is just so tired all the time I dont want to make him more tired.
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WifeyC
by Member on May. 10, 2012 at 1:16 PM

We got in a sexless rut and decided to change it.  Last week I think it was 17 or 18 times.

I was exhausted.

nodramamama311
by on May. 10, 2012 at 1:18 PM
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About every 4-5 days. He wants it every night but that ain't gonna happen, I'm too tired by the time the kids are asleep.
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darrensmom11
by on May. 10, 2012 at 1:21 PM
5,6 times a week on average.if it
Were up to me though,,, id have it less times.my sex drive is blah, although after I got my period,,a week after,i wanted to have sex almost all the time for a week..and then the feeling went bye bye . I got my period back at 10m pp
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BrooklynsMom11
by Member on May. 10, 2012 at 1:22 PM
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 Dang you are some busy ladies! lol  We are lucky to get it in once a week.  It used to be 2-3 times a week but since having a kid, things have slowed way down!  I do miss it though...

justahousewife
by on May. 10, 2012 at 1:27 PM

LOL It's been like a honeymoon this week. I got some seriously heavy tension out in the open and resolved Sunday and we've been cruising in overdrive since. He even tried to say no last night but I convinced him otherwise. 

Normally I'm content till waiting for the weekend since we're both usually too tired or stressed to think during the week. 

atownrb
by on May. 10, 2012 at 1:32 PM
Usually 2x a day sometimes more if it's a weekend or something
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dinahrp
by on May. 10, 2012 at 1:44 PM

It depends.  If we're around eachother 2x a day.  Sometimes just about every night.  On average 6x a week.

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