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how often dod you do the deed

Posted by on May. 10, 2012 at 12:13 PM
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My dh wants to have sex everyday. im not in the mood im tired all the time running after a 16mo. i do let him have it every other day. so how often do you have sex

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BonitaM
by on May. 10, 2012 at 9:33 PM

Amen to that!

Quoting Moms2NTwins:

that sounds like us, back in Feb/March we went like 18 days out of 20 having sex...then it slowed down now we're back to once a week if that. It's getting old but Im tired of arguing about it. Thank goodness for vibrators I guess 

Quoting BonitaM:

It really depends on DH.  I have the higher sex drive so I never turn him away.  Sometimes it's 2 or 3 times a week and sometimes it's 2 or 3 times a day....sometimes I have to wait two very long weeks for any at all. 



AubreeLynn7
by on May. 10, 2012 at 9:48 PM

 Normally at least once a day, there are times we don't have a chance or whatever, but we both like sex!

rwblake2011
by on May. 10, 2012 at 10:32 PM

Dang I am lucky if its once a week lately. With him working later at night and me having 3yr sd most days I usually fall asleep before he is unwound for the night.

scarngwife
by on May. 10, 2012 at 10:43 PM
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I am the type that can take it or leave it.  I try to make sure to make it at least twice a month.

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MrsJHoward
by on May. 10, 2012 at 10:43 PM
Ugh! Me too!

Quoting BonitaM:

It really depends on DH.  I have the higher sex drive so I never turn him away.  Sometimes it's 2 or 3 times a week and sometimes it's 2 or 3 times a day....sometimes I have to wait two very long weeks for any at all. 

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Moms2NTwins
by Veronica on May. 10, 2012 at 10:58 PM

well I dont feel so alone being the horndog in the relationship....sometimes I think he can take it or leave it

Quoting MrsJHoward:

Ugh! Me too!

Quoting BonitaM:

It really depends on DH.  I have the higher sex drive so I never turn him away.  Sometimes it's 2 or 3 times a week and sometimes it's 2 or 3 times a day....sometimes I have to wait two very long weeks for any at all. 


wife to Ron and proud 

momma to 4 kiddos b(15) b(10) & my twins b/g(7) bonus kids: b(14) g(10)

http://www.truthforsophia.com/ 

MrsJHoward
by on May. 10, 2012 at 11:02 PM
Me too, I've done so many things here lately to try and peak his interest more. I know he's tired most days but geeze just give it up already! Lol I do most of the work anyway! :-)

Quoting Moms2NTwins:

well I dont feel so alone being the horndog in the relationship....sometimes I think he can take it or leave it

Quoting MrsJHoward:

Ugh! Me too!



Quoting BonitaM:

It really depends on DH.  I have the higher sex drive so I never turn him away.  Sometimes it's 2 or 3 times a week and sometimes it's 2 or 3 times a day....sometimes I have to wait two very long weeks for any at all. 


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Moms2NTwins
by Veronica on May. 10, 2012 at 11:29 PM

Yea we had a blowup, made up, had great sex for 3 weeks then nadda...this has been an ongoing pattern for 6 years now...I am fed up and tired of arguing about it :o(

Quoting MrsJHoward:

Me too, I've done so many things here lately to try and peak his interest more. I know he's tired most days but geeze just give it up already! Lol I do most of the work anyway! :-)

Quoting Moms2NTwins:

well I dont feel so alone being the horndog in the relationship....sometimes I think he can take it or leave it

Quoting MrsJHoward:

Ugh! Me too!



Quoting BonitaM:

It really depends on DH.  I have the higher sex drive so I never turn him away.  Sometimes it's 2 or 3 times a week and sometimes it's 2 or 3 times a day....sometimes I have to wait two very long weeks for any at all. 



wife to Ron and proud 

momma to 4 kiddos b(15) b(10) & my twins b/g(7) bonus kids: b(14) g(10)

http://www.truthforsophia.com/ 

MrsJHoward
by on May. 11, 2012 at 12:06 AM
I hear you, I get tired of asking for it, we've been together five years. Everything else in our relationship is pretty good I guess it could be worse....

Quoting Moms2NTwins:

Yea we had a blowup, made up, had great sex for 3 weeks then nadda...this has been an ongoing pattern for 6 years now...I am fed up and tired of arguing about it :o(

Quoting MrsJHoward:

Me too, I've done so many things here lately to try and peak his interest more. I know he's tired most days but geeze just give it up already! Lol I do most of the work anyway! :-)



Quoting Moms2NTwins:

well I dont feel so alone being the horndog in the relationship....sometimes I think he can take it or leave it

Quoting MrsJHoward:

Ugh! Me too!





Quoting BonitaM:

It really depends on DH.  I have the higher sex drive so I never turn him away.  Sometimes it's 2 or 3 times a week and sometimes it's 2 or 3 times a day....sometimes I have to wait two very long weeks for any at all. 



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countrymomma81
by Gold Member on May. 11, 2012 at 12:55 AM

Not often but we are both ok with that. Neither of us has a high sex drive. He works a lot and I'm exhausted. 

He works all day then goes to the softball field for 4 hours and umpires. He doesn't get home until almost 9:30. By that time, if we aren't with him at the ballpark, I'm already sleeping. 

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