I have thought about this long and hard for awhile. I have deceided tonight that I no longer can live like this. I am walking away from mom and 2 of my brothers and their familes. I will keep my brother who is also treated like crap. She treats my kids like they are trash. My kids don't deserve this one bit. So I hope as they get older they understand why I did this. This was for them and for me and it's what is best.
They have no granparents but her they are all deceased. But if she treats them like this they don't need her either.