I have an extremely smart 3 1/2 year old little girl. She has been potty trained since she was 2 1/2. The poopy training has not come so easily. We have done so many things to motivate her but she refuses. She will tell me her tummy hurts all the time. I put her on the potty but she wont go until she gets off - she then hides in her room. Lately she decided that she needs to clean herself up after going poop in her underwear or pull up (if it is after bath time - close to bed time she has a pull up on) She still pees during the night so she needs to wear a pull up at night. That is when she usually poops. After I put her to bed last night, she pooped and then used stuffed animals, blankets, toys and her hands to clean herself up....OMG what a mess!!! This is the second time she has done that in a row - she did it to her dad the night before. We have done stickers, gone to the store for toys, we even did a poopy party with cupcakes and family over. She will poop on the potty and then she will collect the reward and start pooping in her pants again. We have also tried to make her clean it up but she absolutely refuses to do that and that becomes a losing battle. We have given her time outs after she poops and have made her sit in it. She just doesn't care and is very manipulative. I love her and think she is just adorable but MY GOD! I cant take it anymore!!! HELP ME!!!