Are you among the ones that have or had been dealing with babymama drama, I know i am? anyways in what ways have you been able to handle your situation that actually worked for you, and are willing to share your ideas in dealing with this Bull.....
AVONLADY74
My bf's baby mama giving problems. She left 2 years ago while he was at work, cleaned out the whole house, there wasn't even trash left on the empty floor. She left nothing. He asked what about the kids and she said for him to take care of them. Now that he's with me, she wants the kids to live with her. She texted him saying she'll pick up their kids clothes/shoes on the 25th, same day she filed for child support.
And because I'm a mom, I'm trying to hold him back from filing for full custody because the kids need their mom. But no, he's going full custody and to get child support from her. The kids are better off here at home with us, even her family says so. But she's their mom and they need her.
Neither my husband or I had kids prior to marriage. I'm not dealing with any of that and I don't envy those that do....
my ex fiance had two kids. his oldest was a result of a one night stand in high school, the mom was really cool & we got along. we'd take the kids trick or treating together, to chuck e cheese, etc. i didn't have any issues with her.
his youngest was from a brief marriage. his ex was crazy!!! if i went with him to pick up his son, even if i stayed in the car she'd refuse to let her son out of the house & my ex would have to call the cops to get her to comply with the visitation schedule. she'd also refuse to let him pick up his son if he was a minute late. she put sugar in his gas tank one night (a nieghbor saw her) just so he wouldn't be able to pick up their son on time. she was furious when he was able to borrow his moms car to get his son. i never met or even talked to her on the phone, my ex kept me as far away from her as he could. the mom of his oldest told me all of the drama that she went through when my ex married her & was so glad i was spared.
I have removed myself from the babymama drama. She spent the first 2 1/2 years DH and I were together repeatedly trying to break us up/cause problems and I was always stressed out or on the verge of killing her. Finally I sat DH down and told him he needed to deal with her and I called her and told her she was not to contact me anymore or I'd get a restraining order. Since then she's left me alone.
Quoting viv212:
My bf's baby mama giving problems. She left 2 years ago while he was at work, cleaned out the whole house, there wasn't even trash left on the empty floor. She left nothing. He asked what about the kids and she said for him to take care of them. Now that he's with me, she wants the kids to live with her. She texted him saying she'll pick up their kids clothes/shoes on the 25th, same day she filed for child support.
And because I'm a mom, I'm trying to hold him back from filing for full custody because the kids need their mom. But no, he's going full custody and to get child support from her. The kids are better off here at home with us, even her family says so. But she's their mom and they need her.
So the kids need a mom that abandoned them? Maybe she just wants the kids for the child sopport.
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- Avonlady74
on Jul. 3, 2012 at 12:36 PM