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I'm sitting here waiting for an u/s to see if I can continue to wait for a natural miscarriage rather than go the medical route and being in here with all these pregnant women and newborns is breaking my heart all over again. I found out a week and a half ago that little bean did not make it. Just venting to try not to break down in this office, thanks for reading.
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by on Jul. 23, 2012 at 2:51 PM
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SoCaliChick760
by on Jul. 24, 2012 at 8:10 PM

I know what u mean about feeling like u already knew ur little one. When the doctor told me what was going on he was so heartless. He pretty much said You have 2 choices. Miscarry on ur own or have surgery. I sat there shocked and stunned b/c he did not even tell me I was miscarrying. I began to bawl and he said well it was not a baby yet just a fetus. WTH!!!! I wanted to hit him but his words had hit me and all I could do is cry for my lost baby not lost fetus. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. And I hope you have a support group at home to help u through this. But we are all here if you ever need to let anything out... Again I am so sorry hun... BIG HUGS!!!!!!!!

ANGIE9958
by Member on Jul. 24, 2012 at 8:41 PM
Big big cyber hugs
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liss05
by Gold Member on Jul. 24, 2012 at 8:55 PM

I know how you feel I have been there myself.(((((HUGS))))

e-doolittle
by Kelly on Jul. 24, 2012 at 10:02 PM
Hugs! So sorry....
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SMTCMMoore
by Bronze Member on Jul. 24, 2012 at 11:31 PM
My doctor was very sympathetic, cried along with me. I'm sorry your doc wasn't, that would have been so aweful!!

Quoting SoCaliChick760:

I know what u mean about feeling like u already knew ur little one. When the doctor told me what was going on he was so heartless. He pretty much said You have 2 choices. Miscarry on ur own or have surgery. I sat there shocked and stunned b/c he did not even tell me I was miscarrying. I began to bawl and he said well it was not a baby yet just a fetus. WTH!!!! I wanted to hit him but his words had hit me and all I could do is cry for my lost baby not lost fetus. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. And I hope you have a support group at home to help u through this. But we are all here if you ever need to let anything out... Again I am so sorry hun... BIG HUGS!!!!!!!!

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SMTCMMoore
by Bronze Member on Jul. 24, 2012 at 11:33 PM
I don't think the front staff noticed, I tried hiding in the corner, plus they may not know my situation. It was tough but I'm getting by now. Thank you.

Quoting latopmom:

I'm so sorry mama. I'm just surprised that the office didn't try to be more sympathetic to your situation.
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extremelibrary
by Member on Jul. 24, 2012 at 11:49 PM

Sorry to hear that :(

Lindalou907
by Bronze Member on Jul. 24, 2012 at 11:58 PM

I'm so sorry honey. I can only imagine how that must have been.

Kenna1212
by on Jul. 27, 2012 at 10:45 PM

 im sorry ive been there=(

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WesternNYmom
by Alaina on Jul. 27, 2012 at 11:51 PM

I am so sorry.

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