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What's a reasonable time for a 13 yr old girl to be out...

Posted by on Jul. 29, 2012 at 2:28 PM
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I have a daughter who likes being with her friends but their parents just let them be out til 1 or 2 in the morning and I just can't bring myself to let mine do it...so what do you moms think is a good time for a 13 yr old to be out??

Posted by on Jul. 29, 2012 at 2:28 PM
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MrsJHoward
by on Jul. 30, 2012 at 6:24 PM
This is what came to my mind and even that is pushing it!

Quoting Toomsie:

At 13? 10:00. Period.

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gavs4boys
by Member on Jul. 30, 2012 at 6:28 PM

I was reading your post and noticed your dd was born Jan 1/1977.  AO was I, on the 31st :)

Quoting Shari55:

When I was 13 yrs. old, I was allowed out till 10pm, which was curfew, and only one night a week.

When my oldest was 13yrs.old, she had to be home by 11pm and she was only allowed out,one night a week. However when we were stationed in Germany, she would go and spend the weekend at friends homes (girls),who lived on the military post. 

With my younger daughters, they have/had no interest in going out and "hanging" out with their peers. My youngest says her peers are a bunch of idiots, morons, etc.  Which is actually good because my husband doesn't allow them to date etc.,when they are under 20yrs. old, however my now 23yr. old isn't ever getting married...at least for now...lol


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Shari55
by on Jul. 30, 2012 at 7:33 PM

Actually she was late, she was suppose to arrive on Dec. 30th, of 1976, but of course she had other plans...lol

Quoting gavs4boys:

I was reading your post and noticed your dd was born Jan 1/1977.  AO was I, on the 31st :)

Quoting Shari55:

When I was 13 yrs. old, I was allowed out till 10pm, which was curfew, and only one night a week.

When my oldest was 13yrs.old, she had to be home by 11pm and she was only allowed out,one night a week. However when we were stationed in Germany, she would go and spend the weekend at friends homes (girls),who lived on the military post. 

With my younger daughters, they have/had no interest in going out and "hanging" out with their peers. My youngest says her peers are a bunch of idiots, morons, etc.  Which is actually good because my husband doesn't allow them to date etc.,when they are under 20yrs. old, however my now 23yr. old isn't ever getting married...at least for now...lol



Shari, wife to bestfriend John (4/88), mom to Heather(1/77),Nyssa(4/89),Michaela (8/94) and four fur babies (cats)

gavs4boys
by Member on Jul. 30, 2012 at 8:04 PM

Oh my gosh you went a month overdue! 

Quoting Shari55:

Actually she was late, she was suppose to arrive on Dec. 30th, of 1976, but of course she had other plans...lol

Quoting gavs4boys:

I was reading your post and noticed your dd was born Jan 1/1977.  AO was I, on the 31st :)

Quoting Shari55:

When I was 13 yrs. old, I was allowed out till 10pm, which was curfew, and only one night a week.

When my oldest was 13yrs.old, she had to be home by 11pm and she was only allowed out,one night a week. However when we were stationed in Germany, she would go and spend the weekend at friends homes (girls),who lived on the military post. 

With my younger daughters, they have/had no interest in going out and "hanging" out with their peers. My youngest says her peers are a bunch of idiots, morons, etc.  Which is actually good because my husband doesn't allow them to date etc.,when they are under 20yrs. old, however my now 23yr. old isn't ever getting married...at least for now...lol




its a boyVicky
<Lilypie Maternity tickers

Shari55
by on Jul. 30, 2012 at 8:16 PM

No, she was born on January 5th, 1977

Quoting gavs4boys:

Oh my gosh you went a month overdue! 

Quoting Shari55:

Actually she was late, she was suppose to arrive on Dec. 30th, of 1976, but of course she had other plans...lol

Quoting gavs4boys:

I was reading your post and noticed your dd was born Jan 1/1977.  AO was I, on the 31st :)

Quoting Shari55:

When I was 13 yrs. old, I was allowed out till 10pm, which was curfew, and only one night a week.

When my oldest was 13yrs.old, she had to be home by 11pm and she was only allowed out,one night a week. However when we were stationed in Germany, she would go and spend the weekend at friends homes (girls),who lived on the military post. 

With my younger daughters, they have/had no interest in going out and "hanging" out with their peers. My youngest says her peers are a bunch of idiots, morons, etc.  Which is actually good because my husband doesn't allow them to date etc.,when they are under 20yrs. old, however my now 23yr. old isn't ever getting married...at least for now...lol





Shari, wife to bestfriend John (4/88), mom to Heather(1/77),Nyssa(4/89),Michaela (8/94) and four fur babies (cats)

almostthere55
by on Jul. 30, 2012 at 8:18 PM


Quoting Toomsie:

At 13? 10:00. Period.


Agree..period.

hopealways4019
by Bronze Member on Jul. 30, 2012 at 8:19 PM
There aint no reason for a minor to be out past 10pm. If they're, they involved in lewd behavior.
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chloesmommy777
by on Jul. 30, 2012 at 10:43 PM

Not 1 or 2... maybe 10 or 11.

ruthiecrue
by on Jul. 30, 2012 at 10:45 PM

I'd say 10pm at the latest and that is not on a school night and I'd have to know the parents of the kid's hose that she is at.

 

inlovewithcraig
by on Jul. 30, 2012 at 10:45 PM

well depends....do u live in the country or more of a city? if the country then id say midnight if its the city id say 10 30 maybe 11.



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