Ex Venting - Come on Ladies! I cannot be alone here...
I was reading a post by someone else about their husband not wanting to work and it reminded me of all the bullets I dodged. Now... I need a venting session. Please join in! I can damn those mofo's to hell with you :-)
Also, I just want to say thanks everyone for the vents! Hope it feels good unloading and thinking about how much happier you are without your ex-dumb@sses.
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2) Additional Story Time:
Thought I would add 1 more.
There is this guy I dated back when I was about 25. We started out great but then about 6 months into it his bi-polar tendencies came out. They were NOT apparent at first. I would randomly wake up and catch him staring at me. Whether if staring at me while in bed or staring at me while doing push-ups. It was super creepy too... like I would hear "666" and wake up to that. My subconscience? Who knows.
So one day I wake up to him doing power sit-ups or whatever he was doing while staring at me and I get up. He starts yelling at me, tells me that I am the worst thing that ever happened to him and the devil, blah blah blah, and he is sloppy drunk. He came initially to my house that way. While yelling and screaming at me he decides to storm out of the house.
He runs out of the bedroom leaving me standing there and all I hear is "CLUNK CLUNK CLUNK... SLAM... (pause) Taaaashaaaaaa... Taaaashhaaaaa". Dude fell down the stairs! I stood in the bedroom laughing before going to help him. Got him a nice place on the living room floor with a blanket where he fell asleep.
I slept on the couch next to him to make sure he was ok. That morning he woke, cursed me out, and FINALLY left. I moved town and he asked me to move back with the promise of MARRIAGE! HAHAHAHAHA! Yeah right.
1) Story Time:
I once dated this guy... brilliant. Had a mechanical engineering degree from Ohio State. He helped make the Nissan 350z... then moved to Florida to start his own company which didn't go anywhere. Trying to be supportive I stuck it out. Paid the rent, bought the food, paid the cable... all he had to pay was electricity.
One day while getting ready for work the lights go out... and pretends like he doesnt know whats going on. The light bill was $30 A MONTH! He hadn't paid in 3 months....
Then I started getting sick and would stay in. He would say, "Oh, I will stay and take care of you." which I thought was so nice. But then I started leaving and coming home early for Dr Appts... AND HE WOULD BE HOME... SURPRISED.
He hadn't gone into work in months! He would leave right before I would come home to play basketball and then complain that I don't cook dinner.
Okay. Done venting. Lucky I met my DH who is his opposite.
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Leaving with this forward I keep as my Cover Photo on facebook:
"To all the girls who are in a hurry to have a boyfriend or get married, a piece of biblical advice: "Ruth patiently waited for her mate Boaz." While you are waiting for your Boaz don't settle for any of his relatives; Broke-az, Po-az, Lyin-az, Lazy-az, Cheatin-az, Dumb-az, Drunk-az, Lockedup-az, Goodfornothing-az, and especially not his third cousin Beatinyo-az. Wait on your Boaz and make sure he respects Yo-az."
Again, thanks for all the posts and replies! :-)
I'm sorry for all you that have to go through bad ex's but your stories are making me glad that I don't have any ex's!!!
Ya know... I would like to think that these experience make me appreciate my DH even more.
Quoting harream:I'm sorry for all you that have to go through bad ex's but your stories are making me glad that I don't have any ex's!!!
My DH doesn't have any picture of me being naked... ???? And I don't have any of him!!! LOL, That would be funny!!!
But I'm sure that if I see any picture of any naked "friends"... I wouldn't be happy at all and believe me, He wouldn't be either.
Quoting Kaylina:I dunno... my only real complaint is that my bf has more naked pictures of 'friends' on his cellphone and computer than he does of me... and that he always flirts on the phone with people about how horny he is and how he can come visit them and wants to sleep inside them... and he never mentions me to them or our 2 kids...
Right!?!?! He has 2 choices, 1 - his balls or 2 - his "friends". Don't make me lock you in the basement and cut those achilles. Child got my blood pressure up :-P
Quoting NaturalezaLover:
My DH doesn't have any picture of me being naked... ???? And I don't have any of him!!! LOL, That would be funny!!!
But I'm sure that if I see any picture of any naked "friends"... I wouldn't be happy at all and believe me, He wouldn't be either.
Quoting Kaylina:
I dunno... my only real complaint is that my bf has more naked pictures of 'friends' on his cellphone and computer than he does of me... and that he always flirts on the phone with people about how horny he is and how he can come visit them and wants to sleep inside them... and he never mentions me to them or our 2 kids...
Thats good :-)
Quoting gcecelie:
Ya know... I would like to think that these experience make me appreciate my DH even more.
Quoting harream:
I'm sorry for all you that have to go through bad ex's but your stories are making me glad that I don't have any ex's!!!
Do you have a landline?
- gcecelie
on Aug. 19, 2012 at 6:01 PM