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Do you ever feel like you hate your husband sometimes?

Posted by on Aug. 22, 2012 at 4:41 PM
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Sometimes I feel like I hate my husband.  These feelings usually occur when he hasn't done anything nice for me and I feel like I do everything for him.

by on Aug. 22, 2012 at 4:41 PM
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thecoffeefairy
by on Aug. 22, 2012 at 4:43 PM
No I get irritated but Never so mad that I feel hatred
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jillbailey26
by on Aug. 22, 2012 at 4:58 PM

Hate?  No.  Dislike?  Sure.  Only when he makes me mad, which isn't often.  


"Let us therefore make every effort to do what leads to peace and to mutual edification"  Romans 14:19

octobermommy210
by on Aug. 22, 2012 at 4:59 PM
After 16 yrs.of marriage definetly! ;) but its usually just for a little while. I can't imagine my life without him! We've been through it all together I guess that's why sometimes I "hate" him. These type of emotions are typical I think in any relationship. As long as you don't hate him more than you love him!
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momma0879
by on Aug. 22, 2012 at 5:00 PM
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I feel hatred sometimes as well!! I stay home and raise our two daughters and I feel like I am never appreciated. Yeah I know I am lucky I get to stay home, but I do nice things for him, so it would just be nice if he would do something nice for me! Instead I just get him coming home from work and drinking beer in the garage all night practically every night. We never have a date night or a night set for family time. It just happens when it happens. Gets kinda lonely when I only have my kids to talk to!
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findingserenity
by on Aug. 22, 2012 at 5:01 PM
Oh yeah...
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gracekyle2
by on Aug. 22, 2012 at 5:04 PM
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Hate is an awfully strong word.... He drives me crazy sometimes and I want to punch him in the nuts but, I don't think I hate anyone.
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jac77
by on Aug. 22, 2012 at 5:05 PM
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I was there once. It never got any better. Babies & mama need to be priority over alone time w a beer. I get it.


Quoting momma0879:

I feel hatred sometimes as well!! I stay home and raise our two daughters and I feel like I am never appreciated. Yeah I know I am lucky I get to stay home, but I do nice things for him, so it would just be nice if he would do something nice for me! Instead I just get him coming home from work and drinking beer in the garage all night practically every night. We never have a date night or a night set for family time. It just happens when it happens. Gets kinda lonely when I only have my kids to talk to!

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KylesMom409
by Linnette on Aug. 22, 2012 at 5:28 PM
Same here.

Quoting findingserenity:

Oh yeah...
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CjEmmemommy
by on Aug. 22, 2012 at 5:30 PM
I feel that way right now. Looked into divorce filing this morning.
offrdngal
by Gold Member on Aug. 22, 2012 at 5:30 PM

 No, I have never felt "hate" for him.  I have felt a very strong dislike for him though.

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